Family caregiving can be very rewarding, but it can also come with a huge amount of stress and changes to family dynamics. Because of this, it’s important to take measures to care for yourself as well. As an in-home care agency, AAging Better recommends the following stress relievers for both its own caregivers, as well as those “caregivers” taking care of family members who’ve had a heart attack :
- Keep a positive attitude and accept that there are some events beyond your control.
- Be assertive but never aggressive. Assert your feelings, opinions or beliefs in a positive way rather than letting a particular situation make you angry, defensive or passive–aggressive. Learning to articulate your hurt feelings in an objective and dispassionate way takes the “finger pointing” out of the equation and simply lets the person you’re caring for know how and what you’re feeling. Most human beings get defensive when they think someone is judging against them. When that happens, good communication tends to suffer.
- Learn and practice relaxation techniques; try meditation, yoga or tai-chi for stress management.
- Exercise regularly. A body can fight stress better when it is fit.
- Eat healthy, well-balanced meals that include a minimum of five servings of fruits and vegetables–the fresher, the better.
- Learn to manage time more effectively.
- Set limits appropriately and say no to requests that would create excessive stress.
- Make time for hobbies and interests.
- Get enough rest and sleep. A body needs time to recover from stressful events.
- Don’t rely on alcohol, smoking, drugs or compulsive behaviors to reduce stress.
- Seek out social support. Spend time with friends or loved ones.
- If a family member, seek out respite care from a professional home care agency such as AAging Better In-Home Care to give you a break away from the stress of caring for your loved one.
Providing in-home care services throughout the five counties of northern Idaho, AAging Better In-Home Care custom tailors a specific plan of care for each of its clients, regardless of whether they’re recovering from a heart attack, surgery or just simply can’t take care of the housecleaning chores any longer because of the frailty of old age. If you or someone you know needs that little extra help with the activities of daily living or just needs some house cleaning done on a regular basis, AAging Better can help. Contact us today at 866-464-2344 (toll free) or if in the Coeur d’Alene, Post Falls or Hayden areas, call (208) 777-0308, or if in the Sandpoint, Bonners Ferry or Priest River areas, call (208) 263-7889, and if in the Pinehurst, Kellogg or Wallace areas, call (208) 784-1505 to find out more.

